“Do twins run in your family?” This has probably been one of
the most asked questions – by friends as well as strangers – since the very
moment we learned we were expecting twins. What follows is usually me giving a
brief explanation of why it doesn’t really matter if there are twins in our
families or not, as identical twins (like our girls) are never hereditary.
People then usually stop asking, but most of the times I can see by the look on
their face that either they didn’t quite understand or they just don’t (want
to) believe it. So I’ll take a moment here to explain a bit more about the heredity
of twins and the differences between identical and fraternal twins.
First of all, there’s no point in asking if twins run in
Dad’s family, as twins can only be hereditary through the mother’s side and the
father has no influence on this at all (sorry guys). Besides, the only type of
twins that could occur because of twins “running in the family”, is fraternal (non-identical)
twins. Not that all fraternal twin pregnancies happen only due to hereditary
factors – there are other possible reasons as well, like maternal age,
fertility treatments or nutrition. With identical twins, however, things are
different. Identical twins do not run in families and fertility treatments do
also not seem to have any influence on the probability of having identical
twins. Identical twins ‘just happen’.
Let me explain a bit on the differences between fraternal
and identical twins, as well as the medical terms used to identify the
different types of twins during pregnancy. I’m including an image as well – I
know my drawing abilities are not great but hopefully it’ll give you an idea.
Fraternal twins:
Fraternal twins occur when two eggs are fertilized by two
sperms. They are also called dizygotic twins, or non-identical twins.
Fraternal twins can be two girls, two boys or a boy and a girl. Dizygotic twins
develop in two separate amniotic sacs (diamniotic) and have separate outer
membranes and placentas (dichorionic). However, in some cases the two
placentas can fuse together into what seems to be one single placenta, and many
times this cannot be seen on ultrasounds during pregnancy and only be confirmed
after birth of the twins. Fraternal twins are the most common type of twins and
the amount of fraternal twin births has been increasing, among other things due
to increased use of fertility treatments as well as increased maternal age.
Identical twins:
Identical twins, also known as monozygotic twins,
occur when one egg is fertilized by one sperm and then splits in two in the first
days or weeks after conception. Identical twins are either two boys or two girls. Depending
on how many days have passed since conception when the splitting of the egg
occurs, monozygotic twins can develop in two separate amniotic sacs with two outer
membranes and placentas (diamniotic, dichorionic), or they can
develop in two separate amniotic sacs but share one outer membrane and one
placenta (diamniotic, monochorionic – this is the most common
type of identical twins), or they can share one single amniotic sac as well as
one outer membrane and placenta (monoamniotic, monochorionic –
this is the rarest type of twins, with higher risks during pregnancy). Identical
twin births are not as common as fraternal twin births and so far there have
not been discovered any factors that could cause or trigger identical twin
pregnancies. As said before, they ´just happen´ - a wonderful gift of nature!
So next time you talk to a parent of twins, keep this brief explanation in mind before asking if twins run in their families, as it might save both you and the parent a possibly uncomfortable situation – especially in those cases where there is no history of twins in the family and fraternal twins were conceived after using fertility treatments, as that might not be something the parent wishes to share with anyone, especially strangers!
And talking about uncomfortable (or odd, silly, …) questions: as a parent of twins you’ll hear plenty of those whenever you go somewhere with your twins. In the beginning you might be annoyed or even feel offended by some of the questions people ask; later on, you’ll get used to it and with a bit of humor it can even be fun to be creative with your answers – a silly question deserves a sillier answer, right? I think this will make a great topic for one of my following blog posts: ‘Questions to parents of twins (the odd, the silly, the uncomfortable) and how to respond to them’. Coming soon!
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